Kids these days...

Children these days are more into video games, television and fashion.  Kids have become spoiled compared to kids about 20 years ago.  In the old days, every child was outside burning energy, strengthening their social skills and just being kids.  You rarely see kids outside this day in age.  They are inside eating up everything (mostly junk food), glued to the television or glued to the video games.  Where is this world coming to?  How are they supposed to strengthen their minds with useless resources?  Children today also are more sexually active and try to act grown, when they are not...mostly due to television and school environment.  They constantly talk back and try to defy you, like they know more than you do.  What they need to do is be the age that they are and listen to the elders who have already been down that road...maybe they will learn something without having to go through the tough times of others.  Read a book, watch the history & discovery channel and research events, people and places on the computer...very beneficial.  We have to pave the educated way for our children or else they will be no asset to the future...to their future! 

Casual sex VS Spontaneity

Sex is a great way to relieve stress, get the heart rate pumping and get those muscles moving.  Having sex with someone who stimulates your every desire feels exponentially better than someone who doesn't.  Qualities that person possess run through your mind during intimacy and orgasms begin to flow in.  Usually someone that hasn't hurt you, you have no drama with and/or is nothing but blissful with them, make the act much more enjoyable.  When having sex with someone and any type of ill thoughts or feelings cross your mind, will hinder the enjoyment of intimacy and may take you longer to reach your peak, if you reach it at all.  Spontaneity is an entertaining intimacy booster.  Having routine sex can become boring and possibly painful due to lack of lubrication.  Introducing spontaneity into the relationship (whatever that may be) will surpass any ill thoughts or feelings (if there are any) sometimes and you begin to focus just only about the here and now.  Pleasing the other person is important and beneficial to you and your partner.  You actually get more performance out of them and yourself.  When you perform the things they enjoy...they in return perform the things that you enjoy; it becomes a win-win situation.  Not everyone you encounter intimately would be a fit or a companion.  Sometimes two people have this unexplainable chemistry...they try and work it out as a couple, but then you realize that it wouldn't work as companions and are better off as friends or just explicit intimate partners.  Those are the ones that you store in the flight data recorder and remissness on what you've shared.  

Deception...Aint is something?

Deception is equivalent to lying.  Once you tell one lie you have to tell many others to cover up the first lie.  Just tell the truth and everything will be fine.  Deception gives the person who is deceiving the upper hand and that's unethical.  

Earthquake in Haiti...What about home?

My heart and prayers go out to all the people in Haiti and their families who are in mourning for their loss or uncertainty.  I pray that things are restored better than they were before.  What about home?

What about New Orleans that still hasn't been restored since August 29, 2005?  80% of New Orleans was flooded due to failure of federally built levee system.  It took the government three weeks to arrive in New Orleans, but the earthquake happened yesterday, January 12, 2010 and they are already talking about aiding Haiti.  Where was this help for your own citizens that were born here on American soil, pay taxes and work hard for a living?  It was still sitting in the governments pocket!!  Where were those ally countries to our aide?  Hiding behind their own government.  The news stated that it will take $2.0 billion to restore Haiti...Where is this money coming from?  Our tax dollars?  Is it just me or this doesn't sound right!  It was estimated to take $100 billion to restore New Orleans, but no talk of actually making that happen has been discussed.  There are many Americans out of work right now and all the government could talk about is helping other countries.  What about the help of your own people?  AMERICANS!!  Our government has its priorities out of line and its up to the American citizens to rise up and fight for our own support. 

In love with a married man...

I met this handsome and intelligent man on a business trip.  He didn't make a sexual pass at first, so I took him as being a gentleman.  We laughed, ate and drank the whole night we were together.  He treated me like an absolute queen!  Anything I wanted or needed...he provided.  The conversation was so intellectual and enjoying that it felt like there could be more there other than an attraction.   We exchanged telephone numbers and email addresses to keep in touch because it was what we both wanted.  It was great talking to him all the time and getting to know someone on a deeper level than sexual intimacy.  Yes, the urge was there, but I am a lady first and I will wait until it is the right time for me.  I started to develop feeling for him in a short period of time and it felt real...it felt like the beginning stages of love not lust.  About three months into the new relationship, things started to get strange; calling later than normal, not answering my calls as much, talking low on the phone.  That's when I put two and two together...He's married!!  I asked him bluntly and he finally confessed.  When he confessed, he also pulled out the divorced papers...stating that he has been going through a divorce before we met and that I am the woman he wants to be with.  I feel that he is off limits because they are still legally married; and karma will come back to me even worse if I hang on to this married man.  I don't know why he didn't tell me in the beginning...it would've been different.  Why does this always happen to me...meet a great, intelligent, handsome, sexy guy...he's always married!?  He still wants to be with me when his divorce is over, but I'm not sure I want that now.  We still are friends, but the conversation has its limits.  Maybe I'm leading him on by continuing to be his friend...