Casual sex VS Spontaneity

Sex is a great way to relieve stress, get the heart rate pumping and get those muscles moving.  Having sex with someone who stimulates your every desire feels exponentially better than someone who doesn't.  Qualities that person possess run through your mind during intimacy and orgasms begin to flow in.  Usually someone that hasn't hurt you, you have no drama with and/or is nothing but blissful with them, make the act much more enjoyable.  When having sex with someone and any type of ill thoughts or feelings cross your mind, will hinder the enjoyment of intimacy and may take you longer to reach your peak, if you reach it at all.  Spontaneity is an entertaining intimacy booster.  Having routine sex can become boring and possibly painful due to lack of lubrication.  Introducing spontaneity into the relationship (whatever that may be) will surpass any ill thoughts or feelings (if there are any) sometimes and you begin to focus just only about the here and now.  Pleasing the other person is important and beneficial to you and your partner.  You actually get more performance out of them and yourself.  When you perform the things they enjoy...they in return perform the things that you enjoy; it becomes a win-win situation.  Not everyone you encounter intimately would be a fit or a companion.  Sometimes two people have this unexplainable chemistry...they try and work it out as a couple, but then you realize that it wouldn't work as companions and are better off as friends or just explicit intimate partners.  Those are the ones that you store in the flight data recorder and remissness on what you've shared.